{"id":10317,"date":"2023-04-04T17:42:29","date_gmt":"2023-04-04T17:42:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/docs\/guide-for-educators\/5-communication-6361\/5-6-betraying-trust-6504\/"},"modified":"2023-05-22T18:39:20","modified_gmt":"2023-05-22T18:39:20","slug":"5-6-betraying-trust-6504","status":"publish","type":"docs","link":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/docs\/guide-for-educators\/5-communication-6361\/5-6-betraying-trust-6504\/","title":{"rendered":"5.6. TR\u0102DAREA \u00ceNCREDERII"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"10317\" class=\"elementor elementor-10317 elementor-6504\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2923b88d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2923b88d\" data-element_type=\"section\"><div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-117da82\" data-id=\"117da82\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b4ab561 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b4ab561\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" src=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_someone_hesitant_to_trust_another_person_cartoon_a_89a39074-2063-4bf7-9e15-438e1931fc4c_1-1024x512.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-9380\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_someone_hesitant_to_trust_another_person_cartoon_a_89a39074-2063-4bf7-9e15-438e1931fc4c_1-1024x512.png 1024w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_someone_hesitant_to_trust_another_person_cartoon_a_89a39074-2063-4bf7-9e15-438e1931fc4c_1-300x150.png 300w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_someone_hesitant_to_trust_another_person_cartoon_a_89a39074-2063-4bf7-9e15-438e1931fc4c_1-768x384.png 768w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_someone_hesitant_to_trust_another_person_cartoon_a_89a39074-2063-4bf7-9e15-438e1931fc4c_1-20x10.png 20w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_someone_hesitant_to_trust_another_person_cartoon_a_89a39074-2063-4bf7-9e15-438e1931fc4c_1-1536x768.png 1536w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_someone_hesitant_to_trust_another_person_cartoon_a_89a39074-2063-4bf7-9e15-438e1931fc4c_1.png 1728w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ad39bfd elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"ad39bfd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4dfc1ea elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4dfc1ea\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&Icirc;ncrederea este o resurs&#259; valoroas&#259; de la nivel individual, la nivel de rela&#539;ii &#537;i la nivel societal<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;este actul de a face ceva r&#259;u sau dureros fa&#539;&#259; de cineva, ajung&acirc;nd s&#259; provoace o pierdere de respect.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/glossary\/betraying-trust\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii<\/a> se manifest&#259; prin minciun&#259;, manipulare, &icirc;nc&#259;lcarea limitelor, &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;irea de informa&#539;ii personale etc.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Consecin&#539;ele tr&#259;d&#259;rii &icirc;ncrederii includ suferin&#539;&#259;, pierderea &icirc;ncrederii, &icirc;ndoiala de sine, sentimentul de vulnerabilitate, izolare<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;este actul de a face ceva r&#259;u sau dureros fa&#539;&#259; de cineva, ajung&acirc;nd s&#259; provoace o pierdere de respect.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/glossary\/betraying-trust\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii<\/a> are un impact at&acirc;t la nivel mental, c&acirc;t &#537;i la nivel fizic<\/span><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-26544bb1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"26544bb1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3>5.6.1.<strong> INTRODUCERE<\/strong><\/h3><p><b><a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;este actul de a face ceva r&#259;u sau dureros fa&#539;&#259; de cineva, ajung&acirc;nd s&#259; provoace o pierdere de respect.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/glossary\/betraying-trust\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii<\/a> <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">este actul de a face ceva r&#259;u sau dureros fa&#539;&#259; de cineva care provoac&#259; o pierdere de respect. <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;este actul de a face ceva r&#259;u sau dureros fa&#539;&#259; de cineva, ajung&acirc;nd s&#259; provoace o pierdere de respect.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/glossary\/betraying-trust\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii<\/a> poate avea loc &icirc;ntre dou&#259; persoane, &icirc;ntre un grup sau chiar la nivel de societate &#537;i se poate &icirc;nt&acirc;mpla &icirc;n orice context (Psychology Today, 2014). Felul &icirc;n care o abord&#259;m este ceea ce ne modeleaz&#259; mentalitatea &#537;i viitoarele noastre conexiuni.<\/span><\/p><h3>5.6.2.<strong> <b>DEZVOLTAREA SUBTEMEI<\/b><\/strong><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;este actul de a face ceva r&#259;u sau dureros fa&#539;&#259; de cineva, ajung&acirc;nd s&#259; provoace o pierdere de respect.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/glossary\/betraying-trust\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii<\/a> cuiva poate lua forme foarte diferite &#537;i poate avea o varietate de consecin&#539;e at&acirc;t asupra persoanei a c&#259;rei &icirc;ncredere este tr&#259;dat&#259;, c&acirc;t &#537;i asupra rela&#539;iei dintre p&#259;r&#539;ile implicate. Acest lucru se poate &icirc;nt&acirc;mpla la nivel individual, la nivel de rela&#539;ie sau la nivel de grup\/societate.<\/span><\/p><ul><li><h5><b>Dep&#259;&#537;irea grani&#539;elor<\/b><\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Atunci c&acirc;nd se stabilesc anumite limite &icirc;ntr-o rela&#539;ie (poate fi vorba de o prietenie, o rela&#539;ie romantic&#259; sau orice alt tip de leg&#259;tur&#259; &icirc;ntre dou&#259; sau mai multe persoane), respectarea lor &icirc;nseamn&#259; asigurarea unui spa&#539;iu mai sigur pentru to&#539;i cei implica&#539;i, astfel &icirc;nc&acirc;t ace&#537;tia s&#259; se simt&#259; confortabil &icirc;n interac&#539;iune. Trecerea acestor limite, indiferent dac&#259; sunt limite mentale\/emo&#539;ionale\/fizice, este o form&#259; de tr&#259;dare a &icirc;ncrederii, deoarece &icirc;ndep&#259;rteaz&#259; acel sentiment de siguran&#539;&#259; &#537;i de a fi sigur c&#259; interac&#539;iunea este ghidat&#259; &icirc;ntr-un mod care s&#259; protejeze persoanele implicate. Limitele personale sunt plasate pentru a proteja persoana care le-a plasat. Prin dep&#259;&#537;irea lor, spa&#539;iul personal &#537;i sentimentul de siguran&#539;&#259; &icirc;n cadrul situa&#539;iei este luat de la acea persoan&#259;. Chiar &#537;i micile gesturi fizice sau deschiderea unor subiecte specifice care dep&#259;&#537;esc limitele unei persoane pot avea un impact mare din cauza a ceea ce reprezint&#259; &ndash; &icirc;ndep&#259;rtarea de la un acord comun &#537;i preluarea controlului asupra interac&#539;iunii.<\/span><\/p><ul><li><h5><b>Schimbul de informa&#539;ii personale<\/b><\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&Icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;irea de informa&#539;ii personale care &#539;i s-au &icirc;ncredin&#539;at poate fi foarte periculoas&#259; atunci c&acirc;nd vorbim despre <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Egalitatea de gen&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;se refer&#259; la egalitatea de drepturi, responsabilit&#259;&#539;i &#537;i oportunit&#259;&#539;i &icirc;ntre femei &#537;i b&#259;rba&#539;i, fete &#537;i b&#259;ie&#539;i (masculinit&#259;&#539;i &#537;i feminit&#259;&#539;i).&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/glossary\/gender-equality\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">egalitatea de gen<\/a> sau despre procesele de autodescoperire. Din cauza vulnerabilit&#259;&#539;ii &#537;i a nivelului de expunere pe care &icirc;l aduc aceste interac&#539;iuni, exist&#259; un risc constant de violen&#539;&#259; bazat&#259; pe gen, <\/span><b>fobie <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;LGBTQ+&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;Lesbiene, homosexuali, bisexuali, transsexuali, queer &#537;i al&#539;ii&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/glossary\/lgbtq\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">LGBTQ+<\/a> <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">sau fobie fa&#539;&#259; de practicile non-normative. &Icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;irea acestui tip de informa&#539;ii nu numai c&#259; d&#259;uneaz&#259; rela&#539;iei dintre tine &#537;i persoana care &#539;i-a &icirc;ncredin&#539;at aceste informa&#539;ii, dar exist&#259; &#537;ansa ca alegerile tale s&#259; pun&#259; &icirc;n pericol siguran&#539;a acesteia (siguran&#539;a mental&#259; &#537;i fizic&#259;).<\/span><\/p><ul><li><h5><b>Minciun&#259; &#537;i manipulare<\/b><\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">O alt&#259; form&#259; de tr&#259;dare a &icirc;ncrederii const&#259; &icirc;n minciuna sau manipularea conversa&#539;iei &icirc;ntr-un mod care dep&#259;&#537;e&#537;te limitele stabilite sau direc&#539;ia interac&#539;iunii. Orice form&#259; de minciun&#259;, inclusiv minciuna prin omisiune, este o form&#259; de tr&#259;dare a &icirc;ncrederii, deoarece persoana care prime&#537;te informa&#539;ia nu poate avea o imagine complet&#259; a ceea ce se &icirc;nt&acirc;mpl&#259; &#537;i, prin urmare, deciziile sale (privind modul &icirc;n care interac&#539;ioneaz&#259; sau ceea ce dore&#537;te s&#259; fac&#259;) sunt manipulate prin re&#539;inerea unor informa&#539;ii care ar fi putut schimba &icirc;ntregul rezultat al situa&#539;iei.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><h4><span style=\"font-size: 20.8px\">5.6.2<\/span><strong>.2. <b>Consecin&#539;ele tr&#259;d&#259;rii &icirc;ncrederii<\/b><\/strong><\/h4><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Consecin&#539;ele tr&#259;d&#259;rii &icirc;ncrederii se pot manifesta at&acirc;t la nivel mental, c&acirc;t &#537;i la nivel fizic. Faptul c&#259; &#539;i se tr&#259;deaz&#259; &icirc;ncrederea poate aduce <\/span><b>suferin&#539;&#259;, sentimentul de vulnerabilitate &#537;i expunere, pierderea &icirc;ncrederii &icirc;n ceilal&#539;i, singur&#259;tate <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&#537;i chiar <\/span><b>&icirc;ndoial&#259; de sine <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">(Psychology Today, 2014). &Icirc;n momentul &icirc;n care &icirc;ncrederea cuiva este tr&#259;dat&#259; &icirc;n mod constant, exist&#259; &#537;ansa ca &#537;i consecin&#539;ele men&#539;ionate mai sus s&#259; &icirc;i afecteze la nivel mental p&acirc;n&#259; &icirc;n punctul &icirc;n care &icirc;ncep s&#259; se <\/span><b>izoleze, <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">deoarece au impresia c&#259; nu pot avea &icirc;ncredere &icirc;n nimeni. &Icirc;n timpul acestui proces, dac&#259; oamenii continu&#259; s&#259; le &icirc;ncalce limitele, &icirc;ndoiala de sine devine un efect comun, f&#259;c&acirc;nd ca persoanele s&#259; &icirc;nceap&#259; s&#259; se &icirc;ndoiasc&#259; de ele &icirc;ns&#259;&#537;i, s&#259; se &icirc;ntrebe dac&#259; nu cumva este ceva &icirc;n neregul&#259; cu ele sau poate s&#259; se g&acirc;ndeasc&#259; c&#259; nu merit&#259; &icirc;ncrederea oamenilor. Aceste sentimente de &icirc;ntrebare constant&#259; ar putea duce la sentimente de nedemnitate &#537;i insuficien&#539;&#259;.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><h4><span style=\"font-size: 20.8px\">5.6.2<\/span><strong>.3. <b>Ce trebuie s&#259; face&#539;i dup&#259; ce a&#539;i tr&#259;dat &icirc;ncrederea cuiva\/v-a fost tr&#259;dat&#259; &icirc;ncrederea<\/b><\/strong><\/h4><ul><li><b>Nu v&#259; gr&#259;bi&#539;i s&#259; procesa&#539;i<\/b><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Dac&#259; cineva v-a tr&#259;dat &icirc;ncrederea, lua&#539;i-v&#259; timp pentru a reevalua nevoile &icirc;n acea situa&#539;ie. F&#259;c&acirc;nd acest lucru, v&#259; pute&#539;i asigura, de asemenea, c&#259; reac&#539;iile dvs. fa&#539;&#259; de acea persoan&#259; se vor baza mai degrab&#259; pe un punct de vedere ra&#539;ional dec&acirc;t pe unul emo&#539;ional. Dac&#259; v&#259; lua&#539;i timp pentru a procesa ceea ce se &icirc;nt&acirc;mpl&#259;, pute&#539;i, de asemenea, s&#259; v&#259; reevalua&#539;i limitele &#537;i modul &icirc;n care a&#539;i dori s&#259; gestiona&#539;i posibilul conflict.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Dac&#259; este posibil, o discu&#539;ie cu persoana care v-a tr&#259;dat &icirc;ncrederea v&#259; poate ajuta s&#259; clarifica&#539;i care au fost a&#537;tept&#259;rile dumneavoastr&#259; &#537;i cum v-a afectat comportamentul acesteia. Nu orice tr&#259;dare are la baz&#259; inten&#539;ii negative &#537;i, discut&acirc;nd despre asta, v&#259; pute&#539;i asigura c&#259; nu au existat ne&icirc;n&#539;elegeri.<\/span><\/p><ul><li><h5><b>Vorbi&#539;i despre asta<\/b><\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Dac&#259; este posibil, o discu&#539;ie cu persoana care v-a tr&#259;dat &icirc;ncrederea v&#259; poate ajuta s&#259; clarifica&#539;i care au fost a&#537;tept&#259;rile dumneavoastr&#259; &#537;i cum v-a afectat comportamentul acesteia. Nu orice tr&#259;dare are la baz&#259; inten&#539;ii negative &#537;i, discut&acirc;nd despre asta, v&#259; pute&#539;i asigura c&#259; nu au existat ne&icirc;n&#539;elegeri.<\/span><\/p><h3><i class=\"fa-light fas fa-balance-scale-right\"><\/i> &ndash; 5.6.3. SITUA&#538;II DE DISCRIMINARE LEGATE DE SUBIECT &ndash; <i class=\"fa-light fas fa-balance-scale-left\"><\/i><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Y este un copil de 14 ani din gimnaziu care face parte din clasa dumneavoastr&#259; &#537;i a venit la dumneavoastr&#259; pentru a v&#259; cere sfatul pentru un conflict cu mama sa. Men&#539;ioneaz&#259; c&#259; problema este privat&#259; &#537;i c&#259; ar dori ca ea s&#259; r&#259;m&acirc;n&#259; &icirc;ntre voi doi. Sunte&#539;i de acord, iar el &icirc;ncep s&#259; povesteasc&#259; cum a primit un telefon nou drept cadou de ziua lui. &Icirc;n timp ce &icirc;nc&#259;rca noul telefon &#537;i f&#259;cea transferul de date de pe cel vechi pe cel nou, Y a l&#259;sat ambele telefoane pe tejgheaua din buc&#259;t&#259;rie &#537;i s-a dus &icirc;n camera lui. &Icirc;ntre timp, mama lui se afla &icirc;n buc&#259;t&#259;rie, a auzit noul telefon vibr&acirc;nd din cauza notific&#259;rilor pe care le primea &#537;i s-a dus s&#259; verifice ce se &icirc;nt&acirc;mpl&#259;. A v&#259;zut o conversa&#539;ie deschis&#259; cu un mesaj de la partenerul lui Y pe care l-a citit &#537;i nu i-a pl&#259;cut &#537;i a &icirc;nceput s&#259; deruleze &icirc;n jos pentru a citi mai mult.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Y v&#259; poveste&#537;te cum a &icirc;nceput conflictul &#537;i cum a sim&#539;it c&#259; nu i-a fost respectat&#259; intimitatea, &icirc;n timp ce mama lui &#539;ipa la el spun&acirc;ndu-i c&#259; ceea ce face este complet gre&#537;it pentru un copil de 14 ani &#537;i c&#259; ea trebuia s&#259; citeasc&#259; mesajele pentru c&#259; este de datoria ei s&#259; &icirc;l protejeze pe Y.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">C&acirc;nd auzi&#539;i acest lucru, &icirc;ntreba&#539;i-l pe Y dac&#259; este de acord s&#259; mearg&#259; la psihologul &#537;colii, deoarece acesta &icirc;l poate ajuta &icirc;n procesul de recunoa&#537;tere &#537;i acceptare a emo&#539;iilor sale. &Icirc;ntre timp, v-a&#539;i dus s&#259; discuta&#539;i despre posibilele modalit&#259;&#539;i de a gestiona acest lucru &#537;i cu un alt profesor de-al lui Y care &icirc;l cunoa&#537;te mai bine. &Icirc;i spune&#539;i celuilalt profesor ce s-a &icirc;nt&acirc;mplat &#537;i, &icirc;n timp ce acesta &icirc;&#537;i preda lec&#539;ia &icirc;n clasa lui Y, scap&#259; din gre&#537;eal&#259; un comentariu legat de problema lui Y &icirc;n fa&#539;a &icirc;ntregii clase.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Atunci Y &icirc;&#537;i d&#259; seama c&#259; &icirc;ncrederea lui a fost tr&#259;dat&#259; &#537;i p&#259;streaz&#259; pentru sine toate informa&#539;iile legate de conflict. El a v&#259;zut c&#259; adul&#539;ii i-au tr&#259;dat &icirc;ncrederea de trei ori &icirc;n acest caz (mama, dumneavoastr&#259; ca profesor, cel de-al doilea profesor) &#537;i a ajuns la concluzia c&#259; nu poate avea &icirc;ncredere &icirc;n adul&#539;i &icirc;n acest caz. Acest lucru &icirc;l &icirc;mpinge spre izolarea &#537;i interiorizarea conflictului &icirc;n loc s&#259; &icirc;l rezolve, ceea ce face mult mai greu pentru Y s&#259; &icirc;l dep&#259;&#537;easc&#259; pe cont propriu.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Invad&acirc;nd intimitatea unui copil\/adolescent &#537;i\/sau evit&acirc;nd subiectul, &icirc;l pute&#539;i pune pe acel copil &icirc;ntr-o pozi&#539;ie mai vulnerabil&#259; &#537;i mai periculoas&#259;, contribuind la &icirc;ndep&#259;rtarea acestuia &#537;i la ascunderea informa&#539;iilor de dumneavoastr&#259;.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ceea ce ar fi putut fi f&#259;cut &icirc;n schimb ar fi fost s&#259; &icirc;l &icirc;ntreba&#539;i pe Y de ce are nevoie &#537;i dac&#259; a&#539;i putea &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;i povestea cu o persoan&#259; &icirc;n plus care ar fi putut ajuta. L-a&#539;i fi putut sf&#259;tui pe Y s&#259; mearg&#259; la c&acirc;teva &#537;edin&#539;e cu psihologul &#537;colii pentru a procesa conflictul &#537;i a-l ajuta s&#259; g&#259;seasc&#259; solu&#539;ii &icirc;mpreun&#259;.<\/span><\/p><h3>5.6.4.<strong> BUNE PRACTICI<\/strong><\/h3><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8532 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1728\" height=\"864\" srcset=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1.png 1728w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1-300x150.png 300w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1-1024x512.png 1024w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1-768x384.png 768w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1-20x10.png 20w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1-1536x768.png 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1728px) 100vw, 1728px\"\/><\/p><h4><span style=\"font-size: 20.8px\">5.6.4<\/span><strong>.1. <b>Cum s&#259; evita&#539;i s&#259; tr&#259;da&#539;i &icirc;ncrederea cuiva<\/b><\/strong><\/h4><ul><li><ul><li><h5><b>Cere&#539;i consim&#539;&#259;m&acirc;ntul<\/b><\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Indiferent dac&#259; este vorba de o limit&#259; fizic&#259; sau dac&#259; dori&#539;i s&#259; &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;i&#539;i anumite informa&#539;ii despre\/cu ei, &icirc;ntreba&#539;i &icirc;nainte de a ac&#539;iona.<\/span><\/p><ul><li><h5><b>Fi&#539;i sincer &icirc;n comunicare<\/b><\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">&Icirc;ncerca&#539;i s&#259; evita&#539;i s&#259; &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;i&#539;i doar unele p&#259;r&#539;i din informa&#539;iile legate de o situa&#539;ie, deoarece acest lucru ar duce la manipularea conversa&#539;iei &icirc;n favoarea dumneavoastr&#259;. &Icirc;n schimb, fi&#539;i sinceri &#537;i deschi&#537;i &icirc;n comunicare.<\/span><\/p><ul><li><h5><b>Stabili&#539;i limitele&nbsp;<\/b><\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Stabilirea unor limite de la &icirc;nceput poate fi de mare ajutor, mai ales &icirc;n interac&#539;iunile cu persoane noi. Aceste limite pot fi exprimate sub forma unei dorin&#539;e, cum ar fi &ldquo;A&#537; dori ca informa&#539;iile pe care le &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;esc cu tine s&#259; r&#259;m&acirc;n&#259; &icirc;ntre noi&rdquo; sau pot lua forma oferirii de op&#539;iuni, cum ar fi &ldquo;Dac&#259; vrei s&#259; &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;e&#537;ti aceste informa&#539;ii despre mine\/noi, te rog s&#259; m&#259; &icirc;ntrebi &icirc;nainte de a o face&rdquo;. Cea de-a doua op&#539;iune nu se concentreaz&#259; pe ceea ce va fi &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;it &icirc;n mod specific, ci mai degrab&#259; pe cum &#537;i cu cine.<\/span><\/p><ul><li><h5><b>Comunica&#539;i clar inten&#539;iile<\/b><\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Dac&#259; &#537;ti&#539;i c&#259; exist&#259; ceva ce nu v&#259; place sau nu dori&#539;i s&#259; se &icirc;nt&acirc;mple, &icirc;ncerca&#539;i s&#259; v&#259; comunica&#539;i clar inten&#539;iile. Niciunul dintre noi nu cite&#537;te g&acirc;ndurile &#537;i nici nu ar trebui s&#259; o facem. Este complet &icirc;n regul&#259; s&#259; nu v&#259; cunoa&#537;te&#539;i inten&#539;iile exacte de la &icirc;nceput &#537;i totu&#537;i s&#259; &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;i&#539;i acest lucru cu celelalte persoane implicate. Acest tip de &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;ire poate ar&#259;ta astfel: &ldquo;Nu sunt complet sigur dac&#259; vreau s&#259; &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;esc aceste informa&#539;ii cu ceilal&#539;i. M&#259; voi g&acirc;ndi la asta &icirc;n timp ce discut&#259;m&rdquo; sau &ldquo;M&#259; simt bine p&acirc;n&#259; acum, dar nu sunt sigur c&#259; aceasta este direc&#539;ia pe care vreau s&#259; o ia conversa&#539;ia. Putem continua &icirc;nc&#259; pu&#539;in &#537;i te voi anun&#539;a dac&#259; nu m&#259; simt confortabil?&rdquo;. Ceea ce conteaz&#259; este c&#259;, &icirc;n ciuda faptului c&#259; nu sunte&#539;i sigur de ceea ce v&#259; dori&#539;i, a fi clar &icirc;n leg&#259;tur&#259; cu acest lucru &icirc;i va ajuta pe to&#539;i cei implica&#539;i &icirc;n conversa&#539;ie.<\/span><\/p><\/li><\/ul><h3>5.6.5. <strong>REFERIN&#538;E<\/strong><\/h3><p>Cho, S.-Y. (2016). Does Gender Equality Promote Social Trust? An Empirical Analysis.&nbsp;World Development,&nbsp;88, 175&ndash;187. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1016\/j.worlddev.2016.07.019\">https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1016\/j.worlddev.2016.07.019<\/a>.<\/p><p>Psychology Today (2014). Trust and Betrayal. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/anger-in-the-age-entitlement\/201401\/trust-and-betrayal\">https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/anger-in-the-age-entitlement\/201401\/trust-and-betrayal<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\/*! elementor &ndash; v3.12.2 &ndash; 23-04-2023 *\/ .elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=&rdquo;.svg&rdquo;]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block} \/*! elementor &ndash; v3.12.2 &ndash; 23-04-2023 *\/ .elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(&ndash;spacer-size)}.e-con{&ndash;container-widget-width:100%}.e-con-inner&gt;.elementor-widget-spacer,.e-con&gt;.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(&ndash;container-widget-width,var(&ndash;spacer-size));&ndash;align-self:var(&ndash;container-widget-align-self,initial);&ndash;flex-shrink:0}.e-con-inner&gt;.elementor-widget-spacer&gt;.elementor-widget-container,.e-con-inner&gt;.elementor-widget-spacer&gt;.elementor-widget-container&gt;.elementor-spacer,.e-con&gt;.elementor-widget-spacer&gt;.elementor-widget-container,.e-con&gt;.elementor-widget-spacer&gt;.elementor-widget-container&gt;.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-con-inner&gt;.elementor-widget-spacer&gt;.elementor-widget-container&gt;.elementor-spacer&gt;.elementor-spacer-inner,.e-con&gt;.elementor-widget-spacer&gt;.elementor-widget-container&gt;.elementor-spacer&gt;.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(&ndash;container-widget-height,var(&ndash;spacer-size))} &Icirc;ncrederea este o resurs&#259; valoroas&#259; de la nivel individual, la nivel de rela&#539;ii &#537;i la nivel societal <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;este actul de a face ceva r&#259;u sau dureros fa&#539;&#259; de cineva, ajung&acirc;nd s&#259; provoace o pierdere de respect.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/glossary\/betraying-trust\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">Tr&#259;darea &icirc;ncrederii<\/a> se manifest&#259; prin minciun&#259;, manipulare, &icirc;nc&#259;lcarea limitelor, &icirc;mp&#259;rt&#259;&#537;irea de informa&#539;ii personale etc. Consecin&#539;ele tr&#259;d&#259;rii &icirc;ncrederii [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":10149,"menu_order":18,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","doc_tag":[],"class_list":["post-10317","docs","type-docs","status-publish","hentry","no-post-thumbnail"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/docs\/10317","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/docs"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/docs"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10317"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/docs\/10317\/revisions"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/docs\/10149"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"doc_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/doc_tag?post=10317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}