{"id":10382,"date":"2023-04-04T17:42:50","date_gmt":"2023-04-04T17:42:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/docs\/guide-for-educators\/6-love-romance-and-relationship-diversity-6363\/6-1-sexual-pleasure-6508\/"},"modified":"2023-05-13T07:34:49","modified_gmt":"2023-05-13T07:34:49","slug":"6-1-sexual-pleasure-6508","status":"publish","type":"docs","link":"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/cs\/docs\/guide-for-educators\/6-love-romance-and-relationship-diversity-6363\/6-1-sexual-pleasure-6508\/","title":{"rendered":"6.1. SEXU\u00c1LN\u00cd POT\u011a\u0160EN\u00cd"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"10382\" class=\"elementor elementor-10382 elementor-6508\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1d5fb931 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1d5fb931\" data-element_type=\"section\"><div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-429f9494\" data-id=\"429f9494\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ec7a14a elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"ec7a14a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" src=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_a_lesbian_couple_close_to_each_other_in_bed_lookin_3992dde3-8405-4011-a450-1bc9ac46f128-1-1024x512.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-8517\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_a_lesbian_couple_close_to_each_other_in_bed_lookin_3992dde3-8405-4011-a450-1bc9ac46f128-1-1024x512.png 1024w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_a_lesbian_couple_close_to_each_other_in_bed_lookin_3992dde3-8405-4011-a450-1bc9ac46f128-1-300x150.png 300w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_a_lesbian_couple_close_to_each_other_in_bed_lookin_3992dde3-8405-4011-a450-1bc9ac46f128-1-768x384.png 768w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_a_lesbian_couple_close_to_each_other_in_bed_lookin_3992dde3-8405-4011-a450-1bc9ac46f128-1-20x10.png 20w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_a_lesbian_couple_close_to_each_other_in_bed_lookin_3992dde3-8405-4011-a450-1bc9ac46f128-1-1536x768.png 1536w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_a_lesbian_couple_close_to_each_other_in_bed_lookin_3992dde3-8405-4011-a450-1bc9ac46f128-1.png 1728w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2573e2d elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"2573e2d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b4e71da elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b4e71da\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">D&#367;raz na sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; by m&#283;l b&yacute;t podporov&aacute;n, nikoliv odsuzov&aacute;n.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; je d&#367;le&#382;it&eacute; pro sebepozn&aacute;n&iacute; a m&#367;&#382;e p&#345;isp&iacute;vat k t&#283;lesn&eacute;mu i du&scaron;evn&iacute;mu zdrav&iacute;.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ka&#382;d&yacute; &#269;lov&#283;k je odli&scaron;n&yacute; a neexistuje obecn&eacute; pravidlo, kter&eacute; by fungovalo pro v&scaron;echny, proto je d&#367;le&#382;it&eacute; experimentovat.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nastaven&iacute; hranic a informovanost m&#367;&#382;e p&#345;isp&iacute;vat k vytv&aacute;&#345;en&iacute; bezpe&#269;n&#283;j&scaron;&iacute;ho prost&#345;ed&iacute;, kter&eacute; podporuje sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V&yacute;uka o ohledupln&eacute;m a respektuj&iacute;c&iacute;m chov&aacute;n&iacute; a fantazi&iacute;ch m&#367;&#382;e pom&aacute;hat v prevenci pokra&#269;uj&iacute;c&iacute;ho zneu&#382;&iacute;v&aacute;n&iacute;.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7e01be15 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7e01be15\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3>6.1.1.<strong> &Uacute;VOD<\/strong><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V dne&scaron;n&iacute; spole&#269;nosti v mnoha zem&iacute;ch chyb&iacute; v&yacute;chova zam&#283;&#345;en&aacute; na sex a vztahy, to se odr&aacute;&#382;&iacute; v po&#269;tu ot&#283;hotn&#283;l&yacute;ch mladistv&yacute;ch stejn&#283; jako na pocitech studu a viny, kdy&#382; se mluv&iacute; o sexu. Vyh&yacute;b&aacute;n&iacute;m se tomuto t&eacute;matu probl&eacute;m nemiz&iacute; ani se nep&#345;ibli&#382;uje k &#345;e&scaron;en&iacute;. V sou&#269;asn&eacute; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; v&yacute;chov&#283; postr&aacute;d&aacute;me diskuzi o touze a rozko&scaron;i (Allen, 2007). Kdy&#382; se rozhodneme o sexu nebo sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; rozko&scaron;i nevyu&#269;ovat, dos&aacute;hneme jedin&#283; toho, &#382;e d&#283;ti a dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; vystav&iacute;me zraniteln&yacute;m a mo&#382;n&aacute; i nebezpe&#269;n&yacute;m situac&iacute;m (psychicky i fyzicky), jeliko&#382; jim t&iacute;m d&aacute;v&aacute;me najevo, &#382;e maj&iacute; z&iacute;sk&aacute;vat informace z jin&yacute;ch zdroj&#367;.<\/span><\/p><h3>6.1.2.<strong> ROZVOJ T&Eacute;MATU<\/strong><\/h3><h4><span style=\"font-size: 20.8px;\">6.1.2<\/span><strong>.1. Zdrav&yacute; vztah k t&#283;lu<\/strong><\/h4><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Zdrav&yacute; vztah k t&#283;lu napom&aacute;h&aacute; k dosa&#382;en&iacute; zdrav&eacute;ho du&scaron;evn&iacute;ho zdrav&iacute;. Pozn&aacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; a p&#345;ij&iacute;m&aacute;n&iacute; sv&eacute;ho t&#283;la m&#367;&#382;e v r&#367;zn&yacute;ch kultur&aacute;ch, n&aacute;bo&#382;enstv&iacute;ch a soci&aacute;ln&iacute;ch vrstv&aacute;ch prob&iacute;hat r&#367;zn&#283;. M&#283;jme na pam&#283;ti, &#382;e ka&#382;d&yacute; m&aacute; sv&eacute; vlastn&iacute; tempo, ale my&scaron;lenka, &#382;e porozum&#283;n&iacute; sv&eacute;mu t&#283;lu n&aacute;m velmi prosp&iacute;v&aacute; na du&scaron;evn&iacute; i fyzick&eacute; &uacute;rovni, by m&#283;la m&iacute;t v ka&#382;d&eacute; spole&#269;nosti vysokou hodnotu. Zat&iacute;mco jsou kultury, kter&eacute; za sexu&aacute;ln&#283; aktivn&iacute; nebo schopn&eacute; rozhodovat o sv&eacute;m t&#283;le nepova&#382;uj&iacute; ani &#269;&aacute;st sv&eacute; populace, jin&eacute; kultury se naopak zam&#283;&#345;uj&iacute; p&#345;edev&scaron;&iacute;m na pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; lid&iacute;, kte&#345;&iacute; se identifikuj&iacute; jako mu&#382;i. C&iacute;lem n&aacute;sleduj&iacute;c&iacute;ch str&aacute;nek je uk&aacute;zat, &#382;e ka&#382;d&yacute; &#269;lov&#283;k m&aacute; pr&aacute;vo na sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; (a s n&iacute;m spojen&eacute; bezpe&#269;&iacute; plynouc&iacute; z informovanosti a sebeuv&#283;dom&#283;n&iacute;) bez ohledu na jeho <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Pohlav&iacute;&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph {&amp;quot;translatedWithWPMLTM&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;} --&amp;gt;v &#269;esk&eacute;m kontextu se pohlav&iacute;m mysl&iacute; a) biologick&eacute; pohlav&iacute;, tedy to, jak&eacute; pohlavn&iacute; org&aacute;ny, chromozomy nebo slo&#382;en&iacute; hormon&#367; m&aacute;me; b) &uacute;&#345;edn&iacute; pohlav&iacute;, tedy &uacute;daj na rodn&eacute;m listu a jin&yacute;ch dokladech nebo c) p&#345;enesen&#283; pohlavn&iacute; org&aacute;ny.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/cs\/glossary\/pohlavi\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">pohlav&iacute;<\/a>, <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Gender&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph {&amp;quot;translatedWithWPMLTM&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;} --&amp;gt;Gender je mnohorozm&#283;rn&yacute;m konstruktem, kter&yacute; m&aacute; psychologick&yacute;, soci&aacute;ln&iacute; a behavior&aacute;ln&iacute; rozm&#283;r, zahrnuje genderovou identitu a genderov&eacute; vyjad&#345;ov&aacute;n&iacute;. N&#283;kdy se setk&aacute;v&aacute;me s pojmem &amp;quot;soci&aacute;ln&iacute; pohlav&iacute;&amp;quot;, proto&#382;e jeho v&yacute;znam nevztahujeme k n&#283;jak&eacute; biologick&eacute; danosti, ale k tomu jak&eacute; vlastnosti spole&#269;nost a p&#345;&iacute;slu&scaron;n&aacute; kultura lidem p&#345;isuzuje na z&aacute;klad&#283; jejich genderov&eacute; identity.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/cs\/glossary\/gender\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">gender<\/a>, sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; orientaci, typ vztahu, schopnosti &#269;i jin&eacute; faktory.<\/span><\/p><h4><span style=\"font-size: 20.8px;\">6.1.2<\/span><strong>.2. <b>P&#345;&iacute;stup k informac&iacute;m<\/b><\/strong><\/h4><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spr&aacute;vn&yacute; v&yacute;b&#283;r zdroj&#367; informac&iacute; je rozhoduj&iacute;c&iacute;m faktorem toho, jak budou d&#283;ti a dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; vn&iacute;mat sex a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;. Informace by m&#283;ly b&yacute;t srozumiteln&eacute; a p&#345;im&#283;&#345;en&eacute; v&#283;ku. Vzd&#283;l&aacute;v&aacute;n&iacute;, kter&eacute; je dostupn&eacute; ve st&aacute;tn&iacute;ch &scaron;kol&aacute;ch, se &#269;asto nezam&#283;&#345;uje na sex a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; a u&#269;&iacute; pouze biologick&eacute; aspekty sexu a reproduk&#269;n&iacute;ho syst&eacute;mu. Krom&#283; toho je s t&iacute;mto t&eacute;matem &#269;asto spojov&aacute;n pocit viny nebo studu, co&#382; m&#367;&#382;e d&#283;tem\/dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute;m nazna&#269;ovat, &#382;e se jedn&aacute; o tabuizovan&eacute; t&eacute;ma, o kter&eacute;m by se m&#283;li styd&#283;t mluvit.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">T&iacute;m, &#382;e se dosp&#283;l&iacute; tomuto t&eacute;matu vyh&yacute;baj&iacute;, odv&aacute;d&#283;j&iacute; d&#283;ti\/dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; k jin&yacute;m zdroj&#367;m informac&iacute;, kter&yacute;mi pro n&#283; m&#367;&#382;e b&yacute;t skupina vrstevn&iacute;k&#367;, &#269;asopisy, pornostr&aacute;nky atd. Problematick&eacute; je, &#382;e se tak mohou dozv&#283;d&#283;t a &scaron;&iacute;&#345;it dezinformace, a t&iacute;m se dostat do zraniteln&eacute;ho postaven&iacute;. S t&iacute;m sou&#269;asn&#283; se tak&eacute; zvy&scaron;uje riziko mo&#382;n&yacute;ch nebezpe&#269;n&yacute;ch situac&iacute; a\/nebo sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho zneu&#382;&iacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; &#269;i vyko&#345;is&#357;ov&aacute;n&iacute;.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jestli&#382;e se nec&iacute;t&iacute;te komfortn&#283; p&#345;i poskytov&aacute;n&iacute; pot&#345;ebn&yacute;ch informac&iacute; t&yacute;kaj&iacute;c&iacute;ch se sexu a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; pro v&scaron;echny, m&#367;&#382;ete dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; odk&aacute;zat na d&#367;v&#283;ryhodn&eacute; zdroje (blogy, webov&eacute; str&aacute;nky, &uacute;&#269;ty na soci&aacute;ln&iacute;ch s&iacute;t&iacute;ch atd.) nebo zorganizovat setk&aacute;n&iacute; s lektory sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; v&yacute;chovy, na kter&eacute;m by se dozv&#283;d&#283;li, co je to sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;, jak ho mohou dosahovat bezpe&#269;n&#283;j&scaron;&iacute;m zp&#367;sobem a &#269;emu by mohli v&#283;novat pozornost.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V&#283;domosti znamenaj&iacute; hodn&#283;. &#268;&iacute;m v&iacute;ce toho budou mladistv&iacute; v&#283;d&#283;t o sv&eacute;m t&#283;le a jeho fungov&aacute;n&iacute;, t&iacute;m l&eacute;pe budou p&#345;ipraveni na p&#345;&iacute;padn&eacute; choulostiv&eacute; nebo nebezpe&#269;n&eacute; situace. Pocit vlastn&iacute;ho pohodl&iacute; a experimentov&aacute;n&iacute; s vlastn&iacute;m t&#283;lem (co&#382; u&#382; pravd&#283;podobn&#283; d&#283;laj&iacute;) jim nav&iacute;c m&#367;&#382;e pomoci orientovat se v budouc&iacute;ch vztaz&iacute;ch s dal&scaron;&iacute;mi sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;mi partnery.<\/span><\/p><h4><span style=\"font-size: 20.8px;\">6.1.2<\/span><strong>.3. Vytv&aacute;&#345;en&iacute; bezpe&#269;n&#283;j&scaron;&iacute;ho prost&#345;ed&iacute;<\/strong><\/h4><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Navozen&iacute; pocitu bezpe&#269;&iacute; m&#367;&#382;e pom&aacute;hat p&#345;i zkoum&aacute;n&iacute; a experimentov&aacute;n&iacute; se sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;m. D&#283;ti\/dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; by m&#283;ly v&#283;d&#283;t, jak takov&eacute; prost&#345;ed&iacute; vytv&aacute;&#345;et, aby bylo jist&#283;j&scaron;&iacute;, &#382;e se budou potk&aacute;vat jen s takov&yacute;mi zku&scaron;enostmi, p&#345;i kter&yacute;ch budou v&#382;dy v&scaron;ichni zapojen&iacute; v&#283;domn&#283; souhlasit, a ka&#382;d&yacute; z&uacute;&#269;astn&#283;n&yacute; se tak bude c&iacute;tit dob&#345;e. Poskytovan&eacute; informace by m&#283;ly b&yacute;t &uacute;m&#283;rn&eacute; jejich v&#283;ku. N&#283;kter&aacute; spole&#269;n&aacute; t&eacute;mata, kter&aacute; lze prob&iacute;rat v ka&#382;d&eacute;m v&#283;ku (s p&#345;ihl&eacute;dnut&iacute;m k r&#367;zn&eacute; m&iacute;&#345;e podrobnost&iacute;), jsou n&aacute;sleduj&iacute;c&iacute;:<\/span><\/p><ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><h5>Rozhovor o sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;<\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Diskuze o sexu a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; by m&#283;la b&yacute;t jedn&iacute;m z v&yacute;choz&iacute;ch bod&#367; rozhovoru. Na tom, &#382;e se zam&#283;&#345;ujeme na sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;, nen&iacute; nic zahanbuj&iacute;c&iacute;ho, a dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; by si toho m&#283;li b&yacute;t v&#283;domi. P&#345;i rozhovoru s dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute;mi se sna&#382;te vyvarovat pou&#382;&iacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; r&#367;zn&yacute;ch metafor a jin&yacute;ch slov pro &#269;&aacute;sti t&#283;la nebo sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; aktivity, proto&#382;e mohou b&yacute;t matouc&iacute; a mohou poslucha&#269;&#367;m rozost&#345;ovat hranice, a t&iacute;m je nech&aacute;vat zraniteln&eacute; a odhalen&eacute;. Pou&#382;&iacute;v&aacute;n&iacute;m jin&yacute;ch slov pro &#269;&aacute;sti t&#283;la a\/nebo sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; aktivity u&#269;&iacute;te d&#283;ti\/dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute;, aby se vyh&yacute;bali i t&#283;mto slov&#367;m nebo je nahrazovali jin&yacute;mi, &#269;&iacute;m&#382; se t&eacute;ma sexu a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; stane tabuizovan&yacute;m a rozpa&#269;it&yacute;m. Popisov&aacute;n&iacute;m &#269;&aacute;st&iacute; t&#283;la takov&yacute;ch, jak&yacute;mi jsou, bez studu a pocitu viny, vytv&aacute;&#345;&iacute;te prost&#345;ed&iacute;, kter&eacute; m&#367;&#382;e sni&#382;ovat riziko sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho zneu&#382;&iacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho obt&#283;&#382;ov&aacute;n&iacute;.<\/span><\/p><ul><li><h5>Jednozna&#269;n&aacute; komunikace a nastavov&aacute;n&iacute; hranic<\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nastavov&aacute;n&iacute; hranic pro objevov&aacute;n&iacute; sexuality a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; m&#367;&#382;e pomoci dos&aacute;hnout pozitivn&iacute;ch zku&scaron;enost&iacute;. Kdy&#382; nau&#269;&iacute;me d&#283;ti\/dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; jasn&#283; komunikovat, pom&#367;&#382;eme jim vyjad&#345;ovat, co se jim l&iacute;b&iacute; nebo nel&iacute;b&iacute;, tak&eacute; v rozhovorech s jejich sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;mi partnery.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kdy&#382; se nau&#269;&iacute; stanovovat hranice v ka&#382;dodenn&iacute;m &#382;ivot&#283;, p&#345;isp&#283;je to k tomu, &#382;e to budou aktivn&#283; d&#283;lat i ve sv&eacute;m sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m &#382;ivot&#283;. Pt&aacute;t se na souhlas\/ud&#283;lovat souhlas je hodnotn&aacute; sou&#269;&aacute;st ka&#382;d&eacute;ho objevov&aacute;n&iacute; ve snaze dos&aacute;hnout sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;. Podn&#283;cujte d&#283;ti k tomu, aby se vyh&yacute;baly r&#367;zn&yacute;m domn&#283;nk&aacute;m, a vysv&#283;tlete jim, &#382;e souhlas s ur&#269;itou &#269;innost&iacute; \/ &#269;&aacute;st&iacute; t&#283;la \/ p&#345;i konkr&eacute;tn&iacute; aktivit&#283; je&scaron;t&#283; nutn&#283; neznamen&aacute;, &#382;e je obecn&#283; platn&yacute;. Naopak je povzbu&#271;te, aby se na souhlas znovu ptaly, a&#382; se budou se sv&yacute;mi sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;mi partnery v&#283;novat jin&eacute; &#269;&aacute;sti t&#283;la a\/nebo jin&eacute; &#269;innosti.<\/span><\/p><ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><h5>D&#367;le&#382;it&eacute; p&#345;ipomenut&iacute;:<\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ujist&#283;te se, &#382;e ch&aacute;pou to, &#382;e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">je v&#382;dy v po&#345;&aacute;dku zm&#283;nit n&aacute;zor<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> a nepot&#345;ebuj&iacute; k t&eacute;to zm&#283;n&#283; &#382;&aacute;dn&yacute; konkr&eacute;tn&iacute; d&#367;vod ani vysv&#283;tlen&iacute;. M&#283;ly by v&#283;d&#283;t, &#382;e maj&iacute; kontrolu nad sv&yacute;m vlastn&iacute;m t&#283;lem.<\/span><\/p><ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><h5>Pou&#382;&iacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; ochrany:<\/h5><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Experimentov&aacute;n&iacute; s r&#367;zn&yacute;mi druhy ochrany (kondomy, rou&scaron;ka pro or&aacute;ln&iacute; sex apod.) pro or&aacute;ln&iacute;, vagin&aacute;ln&iacute; a an&aacute;ln&iacute; sex lze vyu&#382;&iacute;t jako n&#283;co z&aacute;bavn&eacute;ho a u&#382;ite&#269;n&eacute;ho. Uka&#382;te dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute;m, kde mohou z&iacute;skat informace o pou&#382;&iacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; ochrany, vysv&#283;tlete jim, pro&#269; by ji m&#283;li pou&#382;&iacute;vat a jak&yacute;m zp&#367;sobem se pou&#382;&iacute;v&aacute;. Pou&#382;&iacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; ochrany m&#367;&#382;e b&yacute;t n&#283;kdy vn&iacute;m&aacute;no jako p&#345;ek&aacute;&#382;ka pro sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;, kv&#367;li strachu nebo nedostate&#269;n&yacute;m znalostem. Sna&#382;te se posilovat v&#283;dom&iacute;, &#382;e to m&#367;&#382;e b&yacute;t z&aacute;bavn&eacute; a z&aacute;rove&#328; bezpe&#269;n&eacute;.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jako vyu&#269;uj&iacute;c&iacute; m&#367;&#382;ete v hodin&aacute;ch sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; v&yacute;chovy (pokud n&#283;jak&eacute; m&aacute;te, pokud ne, sna&#382;te se vytvo&#345;it odpov&iacute;daj&iacute;c&iacute; prostor) vyhradit n&#283;kolik tematick&yacute;ch okruh&#367;, b&#283;hem nich&#382; budete hovo&#345;it o pou&#382;&iacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; r&#367;zn&yacute;ch ochrann&yacute;ch pom&#367;cek a tak&eacute; o tom, jak mohou tyto ochrann&eacute; pom&#367;cky p&#345;isp&iacute;vat k sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;mu pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;. <\/span><\/p><ul><li>Vyhn&#283;te se studu a pocit&#367;m viny<\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vyvol&aacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; pocit&#367; studu u d&#283;t&iacute; a dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute;ch za to, &#382;e poci&#357;uj&iacute; (nebo nepoci&#357;uj&iacute;) <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; p&#345;ita&#382;livost&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph {&amp;quot;translatedWithWPMLTM&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;} --&amp;gt;Popisuje mezilidsk&yacute; psychologick&yacute; rozm&#283;r sexuality, jen&#382; se t&yacute;k&aacute; romantick&yacute;ch a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ch cit&#367;, kter&eacute; chov&aacute;me k druh&yacute;m.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/cs\/glossary\/sexualni-pritazlivost\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; p&#345;ita&#382;livost<\/a> k ur&#269;it&eacute;mu <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Pohlav&iacute;&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph {&amp;quot;translatedWithWPMLTM&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;} --&amp;gt;v &#269;esk&eacute;m kontextu se pohlav&iacute;m mysl&iacute; a) biologick&eacute; pohlav&iacute;, tedy to, jak&eacute; pohlavn&iacute; org&aacute;ny, chromozomy nebo slo&#382;en&iacute; hormon&#367; m&aacute;me; b) &uacute;&#345;edn&iacute; pohlav&iacute;, tedy &uacute;daj na rodn&eacute;m listu a jin&yacute;ch dokladech nebo c) p&#345;enesen&#283; pohlavn&iacute; org&aacute;ny.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/cs\/glossary\/pohlavi\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">pohlav&iacute;<\/a>, genderu nebo praktik&aacute;m, m&#367;&#382;e v&eacute;st k tomu, &#382;e se budou sna&#382;it tyto informace skr&yacute;vat, c&iacute;tit se provinile za sv&eacute; emoce a styd&#283;t se i sami za sebe. Stejn&#283; tak se m&#367;&#382;e st&aacute;t, &#382;e se n&#283;kdo bude styd&#283;t nebo c&iacute;tit vinu kv&#367;li tomu, jakou m&iacute;ru sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; p&#345;ita&#382;livosti a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; touhy poci&#357;uje (nebo naopak nepoci&#357;uje). P&#345;&iacute;kladem m&#367;&#382;e b&yacute;t &bdquo;slut shaming&rdquo;, proto&#382;e p&#345;i n&#283;m se &#269;lov&#283;k styd&iacute; za to, &#382;e je sexu&aacute;ln&#283; aktivn&iacute; nebo m&aacute; vy&scaron;&scaron;&iacute; po&#269;et sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ch partner&#367; ne&#382; t&#345;eba vy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vyvol&aacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; pocit&#367; studu m&#367;&#382;e p&#345;isp&iacute;vat k tomu, &#382;e se budou d&#283;ti a dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; vyh&yacute;bat rozhovor&#367;m nebo praktik&aacute;m souvisej&iacute;c&iacute;m se sexem, a t&iacute;m se utvrzovat v p&#345;edstav&#283;, &#382;e n&#283;kter&eacute; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; praktiky jsou tabu, zat&iacute;mco o jin&yacute;ch se d&aacute; mluvit otev&#345;en&#283;ji (nap&#345;&iacute;klad &#382;e mluven&iacute; o sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; mu&#382;&#367; je norm&aacute;ln&iacute;, zat&iacute;mco mluven&iacute; o sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; &#382;en nebo osob jin&yacute;ch genderov&yacute;ch identit nikoli). Tyto domn&#283;nky a klamn&eacute; p&#345;edstavy jsou &#269;asto genderovan&eacute;, nap&#345;&iacute;klad, &#382;e &bdquo;mu&#382;i musej&iacute; m&iacute;t r&aacute;di hodn&#283; sexu&rdquo;, &bdquo;&#382;eny nemasturbuj&iacute; tolik jako mu&#382;i&rdquo;, &bdquo;&#382;eny by m&#283;ly b&yacute;t neposkvrn&#283;n&eacute; (panny) p&#345;ed s&#328;atkem&rdquo; (v n&#283;kter&yacute;ch kultur&aacute;ch), a t&iacute;m v&scaron;&iacute;m p&#345;isp&iacute;vaj&iacute; k udr&#382;ov&aacute;n&iacute; genderov&yacute;ch nerovnost&iacute;. Vedle toho na z&aacute;klad&#283; takov&yacute;ch genderov&yacute;ch stereotyp&#367; a domn&#283;l&yacute;ch vlastnost&iacute; mohou b&yacute;t stejn&eacute; situace prosp&#283;&scaron;n&eacute; pro osoby identifikuj&iacute;c&iacute; se jako mu&#382;i a naopak zahanbuj&iacute;c&iacute; pro osoby identifikuj&iacute;c&iacute; se jako &#382;eny: nap&#345;&iacute;klad mu&#382; s velk&yacute;m po&#269;tem sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ch partner&#367;\/partnerek je zku&scaron;en&yacute;, zat&iacute;mco &#382;ena s velk&yacute;m po&#269;tem sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ch partner&#367;\/partnerek je pob&#283;hlice.<\/span><\/p><h4><span style=\"font-size: 20.8px;\">6.1.2<\/span><strong>.4. <b>Rozkr&yacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; m&yacute;t&#367;<\/b><\/strong><\/h4><h5><b>&bdquo;Sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; poci&#357;uj&iacute; v&iacute;ce mu&#382;i&rdquo;<\/b><\/h5><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mo&#382;nost sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; se t&yacute;k&aacute; v&scaron;ech a podpora bezpe&#269;n&eacute;ho zkoum&aacute;n&iacute; a experimentov&aacute;n&iacute; s vlastn&iacute;m t&#283;lem teenager&#367; je pro n&#283; i jejich sou&#269;asn&eacute;\/budouc&iacute; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; partnery\/partnerky p&#345;&iacute;nosn&aacute;.<\/span><\/p><h5>&bdquo;Pro &#382;eny je t&#283;&#382;&scaron;&iacute; dos&aacute;hnout orgasmu&rdquo;<\/h5><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anatomie &#382;ensk&yacute;ch\/<a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Intersex&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph {&amp;quot;translatedWithWPMLTM&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;} --&amp;gt;zast&#345;e&scaron;uj&iacute;c&iacute; term&iacute;n, kter&yacute; se pou&#382;&iacute;v&aacute; k popisu &scaron;irok&eacute; &scaron;k&aacute;ly p&#345;irozen&yacute;ch t&#283;lesn&yacute;ch variac&iacute;. Popisuje kambinace pohlavn&iacute;ch charakteristik, kter&eacute; nespadaj&iacute; do b&#283;&#382;n&eacute;ho bin&aacute;rn&iacute;ho d&#283;len&iacute; na mu&#382;e a &#382;eny.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/cs\/glossary\/intersex\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">intersex<\/a> t&#283;l je odli&scaron;n&aacute; od anatomie mu&#382;sk&yacute;ch t&#283;l. Jeliko&#382; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; rozko&scaron; byla (a je) ve v&#283;t&scaron;in&#283; sv&#283;tov&yacute;ch kultur a n&aacute;bo&#382;enstv&iacute; vn&iacute;m&aacute;na jako tabu pro osoby ur&#269;it&yacute;ch genderov&yacute;ch identit, m&aacute;me k dispozici p&#345;ev&aacute;&#382;n&#283; studie o sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; rozko&scaron;i, kter&eacute; se t&yacute;kaj&iacute; mu&#382;sk&yacute;ch t&#283;l. Navzdory tomu lze experimentov&aacute;n&iacute;m a zkou&scaron;en&iacute;m r&#367;zn&yacute;ch postup&#367;, stimul&#367; a aktivit stejn&#283; snadno dos&aacute;hnout orgasmu i u jin&yacute;ch typ&#367; t&#283;l.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><h5>&bdquo;Co funguje u jednoho &#269;lov&#283;ka, by m&#283;lo fungovat u ka&#382;d&eacute;ho&rdquo;<\/h5><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jak jsme ji&#382; zm&iacute;nili d&#345;&iacute;ve, ka&#382;d&eacute; t&#283;lo funguje jinak. Proto se sna&#382;te vyvarovat p&#345;edpokladu, &#382;e kdy&#382; se n&#283;co l&iacute;b&iacute; jednomu z va&scaron;ich sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ch partner&#367;\/partnerek, mus&iacute; to automaticky znamen&aacute;, &#382;e se to bude l&iacute;bit i jin&yacute;m va&scaron;im budouc&iacute;m sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m partner&#367;m\/partnerk&aacute;m. Sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; aktivity a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; jsou u ka&#382;d&eacute;ho individu&aacute;ln&iacute; a jejich sou&#269;&aacute;st&iacute; jsou hranice, sebeuv&#283;dom&#283;n&iacute; a souhlas. P&#345;ed t&iacute;m, ne&#382; vyzkou&scaron;&iacute;te n&#283;co nov&eacute;ho, je v&#382;dy nejlep&scaron;&iacute; se zeptat.<\/span><\/p><h5>&bdquo;Necht&iacute;t sex znamen&aacute;, &#382;e je se mnou n&#283;co &scaron;patn&#283;&rdquo;<\/h5><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N&#283;kte&#345;&iacute; lid&eacute; nepova&#382;uj&iacute; &#382;&aacute;dnou sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; aktivitu nebo sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; za l&aacute;kav&eacute; (nap&#345;&iacute;klad asexu&aacute;ln&iacute; osoby). Nezapome&#328;te, &#382;e obliba sexu &#269;i sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; aktivita je osobn&iacute; volba, nikoliv obecn&eacute; pravidlo.<\/span><\/p><h5>&bdquo;O&#269;ek&aacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; dle pornografie versus skute&#269;n&yacute; &#382;ivot&rdquo;<\/h5><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; &#382;ivot jako z pornofilmu nemus&iacute; b&yacute;t va&scaron;&iacute;m c&iacute;lem ani ide&aacute;lem sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pro&#382;itku. Pornografick&eacute; filmy jsou nat&aacute;&#269;eny profesion&aacute;ly a mohou obsahovat velk&eacute; mno&#382;stv&iacute; hereck&eacute;ho v&yacute;konu, editac&iacute; nebo experimentov&aacute;n&iacute; s v&#283;cmi, kter&eacute; nemusej&iacute; b&yacute;t p&#345;&iacute;jemn&eacute; v&scaron;em. Sex a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; by m&#283;ly b&yacute;t p&#345;edev&scaron;&iacute;m o tom, jak p&#345;&iacute;jemn&#283; se c&iacute;t&iacute;te, o zkou&scaron;en&iacute; nov&yacute;ch fantazi&iacute; nebo o objevov&aacute;n&iacute; r&#367;zn&yacute;ch dal&scaron;&iacute;ch mo&#382;nost&iacute;. Za&#269;&iacute;n&aacute;te-li sledovat porno, je d&#367;le&#382;it&eacute; si ujasnit, &#382;e sex a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; nemus&iacute; vypadat pouze ur&#269;it&yacute;m zp&#367;sobem a &#382;e si je lid&eacute;, kte&#345;&iacute; se na sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; pod&iacute;lej&iacute;, p&#345;izp&#367;sobuj&iacute; sami sob&#283;.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dal&scaron;&iacute; informace najdete v t&eacute;matu o <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/docs\/guide-for-families\/10-porn-consumption-6396\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sledov&aacute;n&iacute; porna<\/span><\/a><br><i class=\"fas fa-check-circle myths-green\"><\/i><\/p><h4><span style=\"font-size: 20.8px;\">6.1.2<\/span><strong>.5. <b>Vlastn&iacute; zkoum&aacute;n&iacute; a zam&#283;&#345;en&iacute; na pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;<\/b><\/strong><\/h4><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kl&iacute;&#269;em k hled&aacute;n&iacute; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; je neust&aacute;l&eacute; experimentov&aacute;n&iacute;, p&#345;i n&#283;m&#382; zji&scaron;&#357;ujete, co va&scaron;emu t&#283;lu nejl&eacute;pe vyhovuje. &#381;&aacute;dn&eacute; obecn&eacute; pravidlo nebo &bdquo;spr&aacute;vn&yacute;&rdquo; zp&#367;sob neexistuje, proto&#382;e ka&#382;d&eacute; t&#283;lo je jin&eacute; a m&aacute; sv&eacute; vlastn&iacute; vn&iacute;m&aacute;n&iacute; pocit&#367; a stimul&#367;.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kdy&#382; s d&#283;tmi\/dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute;mi mluv&iacute;te o sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;, sna&#382;te se jim p&#345;edat my&scaron;lenku, &#382;e ne v&scaron;echna t&#283;la funguj&iacute; stejn&#283;, co&#382; je naprosto v po&#345;&aacute;dku. Je t&#345;eba, aby si uv&#283;domili, &#382;e nen&iacute; nic &scaron;patn&eacute;ho na tom, &#382;e jsou jin&iacute; nebo &#382;e c&iacute;t&iacute; n&#283;co, co jin&iacute; lid&eacute; nec&iacute;t&iacute;.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pro&#382;itek mohou p&#345;in&aacute;&scaron;et nejr&#367;zn&#283;j&scaron;&iacute; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; aktivity, kter&eacute; m&#367;&#382;ete provozovat bu&#271; sami, nebo s partnery:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L&iacute;b&aacute;n&iacute;<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Doteky<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hlazen&iacute;<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Masturbace&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph {&amp;quot;translatedWithWPMLTM&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;} --&amp;gt;Jedn&aacute; se o manipulaci s vlastn&iacute;mi pohlavn&iacute;mi org&aacute;ny, obvykle penisem nebo klitorisem, za &uacute;&#269;elem sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho uspokojen&iacute;.&amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/cs\/glossary\/masturbace\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">Masturbace<\/a><\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pou&#382;it&iacute; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ch hra&#269;ek<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Oraln&iacute;\/vagin&aacute;ln&iacute;\/an&aacute;ln&iacute; sex<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Sexting&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph {&amp;quot;translatedWithWPMLTM&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;} --&amp;gt;Jedn&aacute; se o &#269;innost spo&#269;&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; v zas&iacute;l&aacute;n&iacute; sexu&aacute;ln&#283; explicitn&iacute;ho obsahu prost&#345;ednictv&iacute;m soukrom&yacute;ch zpr&aacute;v nebo internetu. T&yacute;k&aacute; se fotografi&iacute;, vide&iacute; a zpr&aacute;v (p&iacute;semn&yacute;ch i zvukov&yacute;ch). &amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/cs\/glossary\/sexting\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">Sexting<\/a>\/sex po telefonu ad.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V&scaron;echny tyto aktivity si m&#367;&#382;ete vyzkou&scaron;et sami nebo s partnerem\/partnerkou. Zkoum&aacute;n&iacute;m sebe sama budete moci l&eacute;pe komunikovat to, co se v&aacute;m l&iacute;b&iacute; a &#269;emu byste se rad&#283;ji vyhnuli i b&#283;hem partnersk&yacute;ch sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ch aktivit.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Omezen&iacute; sexu na jeho biologickou funkci rozmno&#382;ov&aacute;n&iacute; znamen&aacute; omezen&iacute; (n&#283;kdy dokonce &uacute;pln&eacute; vymaz&aacute;n&iacute;) p&#345;&iacute;le&#382;itosti objevovat sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;. T&iacute;m, &#382;e d&#283;ti\/dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; nau&#269;&iacute;me, &#382;e pozn&aacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; vlastn&iacute;ho t&#283;la a zam&#283;&#345;en&iacute; se na sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; je pro n&#283; prosp&#283;&scaron;n&eacute;, budou si moci l&eacute;pe vytv&aacute;&#345;et respektuj&iacute;c&iacute; a souhlasn&eacute; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; vztahy, a&#382; budou star&scaron;&iacute;. Nav&iacute;c d&iacute;ky poznatk&#367;m o prozkoum&aacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; a pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; by mohly b&yacute;t schopny d&aacute;le experimentovat s r&#367;zn&yacute;mi styly vztah&#367; a kinky mnohem bezpe&#269;n&#283;j&scaron;&iacute; cestou.<\/span><\/p><h3><i class=\"fa-light fas fa-balance-scale-right\"><\/i> &ndash; 6.1.3. DISKRIMINA&#268;N&Iacute; SITUACE K T&Eacute;MATU &ndash; <i class=\"fa-light fas fa-balance-scale-left\"><\/i><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V hodin&#283; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; v&yacute;chovy se vyu&#269;uj&iacute;c&iacute; p&#345;i pov&iacute;d&aacute;n&iacute; o reprodukci a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ch aktivit&aacute;ch ptal &#382;&aacute;k&#367;, co v&#283;d&iacute; o sexu a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;. Aby se mohli zapojit bez jak&yacute;chkoliv omezen&iacute;, vyzval je vyu&#269;uj&iacute;c&iacute;, aby si v&scaron;echno napsali na pap&iacute;r, a na z&aacute;v&#283;r to v&scaron;e p&#345;e&#269;etl nahlas. P&#345;i &#269;ten&iacute; nahlas bylo ve t&#345;&iacute;d&#283; pom&#283;rn&#283; ticho. A&#269;koliv byla t&#345;&iacute;da sm&iacute;&scaron;en&aacute; r&#367;zn&yacute;mi genderov&yacute;mi a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;mi identitami, v&#283;t&scaron;&iacute; &#269;&aacute;st v&scaron;ech zapsan&yacute;ch informac&iacute; byla zam&#283;&#345;ena na mu&#382;sk&aacute; anatomick&aacute; t&#283;la, jejich ochranu a pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;, a v&scaron;e bylo pops&aacute;no z heterosexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pohledu (sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; kontakty vn&iacute;man&eacute; pouze jako interakce mezi mu&#382;em a &#382;enou). Naopak jen velmi m&aacute;lo lid&iacute; se zm&iacute;nilo tak&eacute; o jin&yacute;ch sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ch praktik&aacute;ch nebo informac&iacute;ch t&yacute;kaj&iacute;c&iacute;ch se sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; u &#382;ensk&yacute;ch anatomick&yacute;ch t&#283;l &#269;i lid&iacute; s jinou sexualitou.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Toto je situace diskriminuj&iacute;c&iacute; v&scaron;echny, kte&#345;&iacute; se neidentifikuj&iacute; jako mu&#382;i a\/nebo jako heterosexu&aacute;ln&iacute; osoby z d&#367;vodu nedostate&#269;n&eacute;ho p&#345;&iacute;stupu k informac&iacute;m. Nejen&#382;e informace nejsou stejn&#283; dostupn&eacute;, ale rovn&#283;&#382; se o nich m&eacute;n&#283; mluv&iacute; a jsou vn&iacute;m&aacute;ny jako v&#283;t&scaron;&iacute; tabu. Nenormativn&iacute; postoje, praktiky a identity nemaj&iacute; stejn&yacute; prostor a privilegia jako ty heteronormativn&iacute;, na mu&#382;e zam&#283;&#345;en&eacute; praktiky. Z toho d&#367;vodu byste jako vyu&#269;uj&iacute;c&iacute; mohli tuto mezeru vyrovnat t&iacute;m, &#382;e budete otev&#345;en&#283; hovo&#345;it o sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;m pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; &#382;en, <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Queer&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph {&amp;quot;translatedWithWPMLTM&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;} --&amp;gt;P&#345;&iacute;davn&eacute; jm&eacute;no pou&#382;&iacute;van&eacute; n&#283;kter&yacute;mi lidmi, jejich&#382; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; orientace nen&iacute; v&yacute;hradn&#283; heterosexu&aacute;ln&iacute; nebo heterosexu&aacute;ln&iacute;. Tento zast&#345;e&scaron;uj&iacute;c&iacute; term&iacute;n zahrnuje lidi, kte&#345;&iacute; maj&iacute; nebin&aacute;rn&iacute;, genderov&#283; fluidn&iacute; nebo genderov&#283; nekonformn&iacute; identitu. &amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/cs\/glossary\/queer\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">queer<\/a> osob, lid&iacute; s odli&scaron;nou sexualitou a v&scaron;ech ostatn&iacute;ch, kte&#345;&iacute; nezapadaj&iacute; do kategorie heterosexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ch mu&#382;&#367;.<\/span><\/p><h3>6.1.4.<strong> P&#344;&Iacute;KLADY DOBR&Eacute; PRAXE<\/strong><\/h3><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-8532 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1728\" height=\"864\" srcset=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1.png 1728w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1-300x150.png 300w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1-1024x512.png 1024w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1-768x384.png 768w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1-20x10.png 20w, https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/04\/CatnessGames_LGTBI_people_celebrating_pride_for_kids_education_82213724-fcd3-4a16-a44e-af58de8a6bf7_1-1536x768.png 1536w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1728px) 100vw, 1728px\"\/><\/p><h4><span style=\"font-size: 20.8px;\">6.1.4<\/span><strong>.1. Vyhn&#283;te se stereotyp&#367;m a vytv&aacute;&#345;en&iacute; pocit&#367; hanby &#269;i viny.<\/strong><\/h4><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Utvrzov&aacute;n&iacute; stereotyp&#367;, jako nap&#345;&iacute;klad &bdquo;&#382;eny jsou citliv&#283;j&scaron;&iacute; a emocion&aacute;ln&#283;j&scaron;&iacute;&rdquo;, zat&iacute;mco &bdquo;mu&#382;i jsou drsn&iacute; a maj&iacute; r&aacute;di divok&yacute;\/agresivn&iacute;\/dominantn&iacute; sex&rdquo;, normalizuje mo&#382;n&yacute; pocit studu, viny nebo snahu utvrdit tuto p&#345;edstavu p&#345;ed sv&yacute;mi sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;mi partnery. Nam&iacute;sto ostouzen&iacute; nebo vyvol&aacute;v&aacute;n&iacute; pocitu viny za to, jak&yacute;m zp&#367;sobem n&#283;kdo praktikuje sex &#269;i zkoum&aacute; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;, se zkuste zeptat na to, co se doty&#269;n&yacute;m osob&aacute;m l&iacute;b&iacute;. Vyvarujte se domn&#283;nek zalo&#382;en&yacute;ch na n&#283;&#269;&iacute; povaze nebo fyzick&eacute;m vzhledu a zkuste si osvojit zvyk pt&aacute;t se ka&#382;d&eacute;*ho nov&eacute;*ho sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;*ho partnera\/partnerky, co jim vyhovuje a jak r&aacute;di zkoumaj&iacute; sv&eacute; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S v&#283;dom&iacute;m toho, &#382;e n&#283;kdy mohou m&iacute;t d&#283;ti\/dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; p&#345;&iacute;stup k t&#283;mto informac&iacute;m opravdu velmi brzy ve sv&eacute;m dosp&iacute;v&aacute;n&iacute;, zkuste p&#345;eformulovat informace, kter&eacute; se k nim dostanou tak, aby z&iacute;skaly pozitivn&iacute; hodnotu. Nap&#345;&iacute;klad pokud za v&aacute;mi d&iacute;t&#283; p&#345;ijde a &#345;ekne v&aacute;m, &#382;e sly&scaron;elo, &#382;e &#382;eny jsou velmi emocion&aacute;ln&iacute; a r&aacute;dy se ke sv&yacute;m partner&#367;m up&iacute;naj&iacute;, zkuste mu vysv&#283;tlit, &#382;e ka&#382;d&yacute; &#269;lov&#283;k je jin&yacute; a m&aacute; sv&eacute; vlastn&iacute; pot&#345;eby. Zat&iacute;mco n&#283;kter&eacute; osoby mohou c&iacute;tit pot&#345;ebu nav&aacute;zat siln&#283;j&scaron;&iacute; citov&eacute; pouto p&#345;ed jakoukoli sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; aktivitou, jin&eacute; mohou d&aacute;vat p&#345;ednost nav&aacute;z&aacute;n&iacute; vztahu prost&#345;ednictv&iacute;m rozhovoru nebo jin&yacute;m zp&#367;sobem. Pot&eacute; vyb&iacute;dn&#283;te k jednozna&#269;n&eacute; komunikaci a rozhovoru o hranic&iacute;ch, ochran&#283; a bezpe&#269;n&eacute;m prozkoum&aacute;v&aacute;n&iacute;.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sna&#382;te se vysv&#283;tlit, &#382;e nen&iacute; ostudn&eacute; m&iacute;t odli&scaron;n&eacute; n&aacute;zory na sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; nebo se vzru&scaron;ovat r&#367;zn&yacute;mi &#269;innostmi a podn&#283;ty.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dal&scaron;&iacute; informace najdete v t&eacute;matu o <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/docs\/guide-for-educators\/9-environment-influences-6369\/9-3-gender-roles-and-gender-stereotypes-6528\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rol&iacute;ch a genderov&yacute;ch stereotypech.<\/span><\/a><\/p><h4><span style=\"font-size: 20.8px;\">6.1.4<\/span><strong>.2. Anonymn&iacute; schr&aacute;nka ot&aacute;zek<\/strong><\/h4><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kv&#367;li studu a pocitu viny spojen&yacute;m s t&eacute;matem sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;, zejm&eacute;na pro ka&#382;d&eacute;ho, kdo se neidentifikuje jako mu&#382;, m&#367;&#382;e b&yacute;t kladen&iacute; ot&aacute;zek trochu zastra&scaron;uj&iacute;c&iacute;, pokud v&aacute;s v&scaron;ichni usly&scaron;&iacute; pt&aacute;t se nahlas. Dobr&yacute;m zp&#367;sobem, jak tuto situaci vy&#345;e&scaron;it, je vytvo&#345;en&iacute; anonymn&iacute; schr&aacute;nky, kde mohou d&#283;ti\/dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute; pokl&aacute;dat ot&aacute;zky t&yacute;kaj&iacute;c&iacute; se sexu a sexu&aacute;ln&iacute;ho pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;. Schr&aacute;nku byste mohli pravideln&#283; kontrolovat a pom&aacute;hat p&#345;i poskytov&aacute;n&iacute; t&#283;chto informac&iacute;. Thomas Schallhart, zakladatel organizace Critical <a class=\"glossaryLink\" aria-describedby=\"tt\" data-cmtooltip=\"&lt;div class=glossaryItemTitle&gt;Queer&lt;\/div&gt;&lt;div class=glossaryItemBody&gt;&amp;lt;!-- wp:paragraph {&amp;quot;translatedWithWPMLTM&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;1&amp;quot;} --&amp;gt;P&#345;&iacute;davn&eacute; jm&eacute;no pou&#382;&iacute;van&eacute; n&#283;kter&yacute;mi lidmi, jejich&#382; sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; orientace nen&iacute; v&yacute;hradn&#283; heterosexu&aacute;ln&iacute; nebo heterosexu&aacute;ln&iacute;. Tento zast&#345;e&scaron;uj&iacute;c&iacute; term&iacute;n zahrnuje lidi, kte&#345;&iacute; maj&iacute; nebin&aacute;rn&iacute;, genderov&#283; fluidn&iacute; nebo genderov&#283; nekonformn&iacute; identitu. &amp;lt;br\/&amp;gt;&amp;lt;!-- \/wp:paragraph --&amp;gt;&lt;\/div&gt;\" href=\"https:\/\/learn.gamingee.eu\/cs\/glossary\/queer\/\" target=\"_blank\" data-gt-translate-attributes='[{\"attribute\":\"data-cmtooltip\", \"format\":\"html\"}]' tabindex=\"0\" role=\"link\">Queer<\/a> Solidarity, rad&iacute; u&#269;itel&#367;m, aby s sebou p&#345;ivedli odborn&iacute;ky nebo sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pedagogy, kte&#345;&iacute; mohou na tyto ot&aacute;zky podrobn&#283; odpov&#283;d&#283;t, a usnadnit tak zapojen&iacute; d&#283;t&iacute;\/dosp&iacute;vaj&iacute;c&iacute;ch do diskuze s v&#283;dom&iacute;m, &#382;e osoba, kter&aacute; na tyto ot&aacute;zky odpov&iacute;d&aacute;, nebude jejich ka&#382;dodenn&iacute;m u&#269;itelem. To by m&#283;lo d&#283;ti\/teenagery povzbudit k v&#283;t&scaron;&iacute; otev&#345;enosti a men&scaron;&iacute;mu strachu &#269;i studu kl&aacute;st ot&aacute;zky.<\/span><\/p><h3>6.1.5.<strong> REFERENCE<\/strong><\/h3><p>Allen, L. (2007). &ldquo;Pleasurable pedagogy&rdquo;: young people&rsquo;s ideas about teaching &ldquo;pleasure&rdquo; in sexuality education.&nbsp;Twenty-First Century Society,&nbsp;2(3), 249&ndash;264. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/17450140701631437\">https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/17450140701631437<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>D&#367;raz na sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; by m&#283;l b&yacute;t podporov&aacute;n, nikoliv odsuzov&aacute;n. Sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute; je d&#367;le&#382;it&eacute; pro sebepozn&aacute;n&iacute; a m&#367;&#382;e p&#345;isp&iacute;vat k t&#283;lesn&eacute;mu i du&scaron;evn&iacute;mu zdrav&iacute;. Ka&#382;d&yacute; &#269;lov&#283;k je odli&scaron;n&yacute; a neexistuje obecn&eacute; pravidlo, kter&eacute; by fungovalo pro v&scaron;echny, proto je d&#367;le&#382;it&eacute; experimentovat. Nastaven&iacute; hranic a informovanost m&#367;&#382;e p&#345;isp&iacute;vat k vytv&aacute;&#345;en&iacute; bezpe&#269;n&#283;j&scaron;&iacute;ho prost&#345;ed&iacute;, kter&eacute; podporuje sexu&aacute;ln&iacute; pot&#283;&scaron;en&iacute;. 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